Thursday, April 29, 2010

Patience


Recently I have been learning a lot of patience and I am learning a lot about it from Joseph Smith. Doctrine and Covenants 121 and 122 are were one should turn to if they need to study up on the subject. Sometimes I feel like I keep on praying and WAITING for answers.

Lines like "O God, where art thou?" and "how long shall thy hand be stayed" are natural human questions. When in reality I should be thinking, "The Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater then he?"

Joseph Smith truly perfected the art of patience. He was mocked, physically hurt, lost family members, and he had to constantly be in tune with the spirit in order to receive revelation for the church. Yet he was HAPPY! One of my favorite quotes from a college professor was, "have joy in the journey, not the destination." So while I may have to patiently wait for answers I need to tell myself, "Just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swimming, swimming (in the tune of Dory)." And have JOY!

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Endurance

From the time Mormon was 15 he was the commander of the army of Nephites. He fought in a war against the Lamanites his whole life. He was surrounded by wicked people the entire time with the exception of his son and the 3 Nephites.

Shortly before he dies the 3 Nephites administered to him and his son Moroni. After his death Moroni wandered the land ALONE. He was the only righteous person left.

Sometimes when I get discouraged and think I can't make it anymore it would probably help to remember the examples of these men. I cannot imagine fighting in a war my whole life or being the only righteous person in the land.

Really when it comes to enduring to the end I have it much easier then they did, but the thing we have in common is reliance on the Lord.

Monday, April 19, 2010

“To eat is a necessity, but to eat intelligently is an art.” -La Rochefoucauld



In the last week I have been thinking a lot about health, exercise, the Word of Wisdom, and taking care of our bodies. Our bodies are amazing and they are also a gift.

So with that in mind shouldn't we strive to take care of the gift we are given? Some people I have come across lately don't see the point of exercising.

I disagree with these thoughts and think you feel so much better when you are exercising and eating right. Sure there are some "skinny" people out there, but they are some of the least healthy people too.

If you think America is ahead of the rest of the world in nutrition, think again. Just watch "Jaime Oliver's Food Revolution" on friday nights. I cannot believe some of the things I have seen on the show.

I even asked a co-workers kids about specific fruits and vegatables and they were clueless. They did tell me all the kinds of junk-food they liked.

If good health is not a motivation for you maybe D&C 89 will help:

"18And all saints who remember to keep and do these sayings, walking in obedience to the commandments, shall receive bhealth in their navel and marrow to their bones;

19 And shall find wisdom and great treasures of knowledge, even hidden treasures;

20 And shall run and not be weary, and shall walk and not faint.

21 And I, the Lord, give unto them a promise, that the destroying angel shall pass by them, as the children of Israel, and not slay them. Amen."

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

10 Things to like about men




Recently I noticed a few movies advertised on TV, specifically "10 Things I hate about you" and "How to lose a guy in 10 days."

This past Sunday in Relief Society the teacher told us a story about an experience she had involving men that really touched me. She needed a piece of furniture moved and had asked several men that she knew who had a truck to help move it. She kept striking out and was very frustrated with men in general at that point. Finally her brother thought he could help, even though he didn't have a truck. When they went to the wood shop to pick up the piece of furniture her brother saw a gentlemen there with a truck and asked if he would help them move their item the few blocks it needed to go. He was happy to help and at that point the RS teacher had the distinct impression, "I am a Man and I love you," from Heavenly Father. At first I was confused by her story, but then I realized that she had frustrations and bad feelings towards all men and the spirit testified to her that the Godhead was 3 men who loved her and would always help her. Hopefully that story makes sense.

Anyway, after these advertisements and hearing this story in church I have been thinking there is a lot to like about men. We could probably all name at least 10 great things about a man in our lives. A few things I like off the top of my head are: we rely on them for the priesthood, most of them are strong or willing to help us lift heavy things, they are great providers, and if I ever need to know what is going on in sports they are my source. I appreciate all the men in my life especially my Heavenly Father, Savior, Dad, and brothers!

Friday, April 9, 2010

Faith in Jesus Christ, not in outcomes

I loved every minute of General Conference. Since then I have almost listened to all the messages again. I really did not have a favorite because each talk was so different, however, the one that has been on my mind is by Elder Oaks from the Priesthood session. It is entitled "Healing the sick." A lot of the message focuses on faith. One of the lines I liked was towards the end of his talk and is the title of this post. Here is another great part of his message:

"Faith is essential for healing by the powers of heaven. The Book of Mormon even teaches that “if there be no faith among the children of men God can do no miracle among them” (Ether 12:12).10 In a notable talk on administering to the sick, President Spencer W. Kimball said: “The need of faith is often underestimated. The ill one and the family often seem to depend wholly on the power of the priesthood and the gift of healing that they hope the administering brethren may have, whereas the greater responsibility is with him who is blessed. . . . The major element is the faith of the individual when that person is conscious and accountable. ‘Thy faith hath made thee whole’ [Matthew 9:22] was repeated so often by the Master that it almost became a chorus.” President Kimball even suggested that “too frequent administrations may be an indication of lack of faith or of the ill one trying to pass the responsibility for faith development to the elders rather than self.”

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Holiday!


Imagine preparing for a holiday or vacation for month's. You have been praying for specific things. Other's have been preparing so that you will have a great holiday. That is General Conference for me. It is my favorite holiday and I get it twice a year!

Contrary to what my brother believes, it is a holiday! Here is a definition I found online:
1. A day free from work that one may spend at leisure, especially a day on which custom or the law dictates a halting of general business activity to commemorate or celebrate a particular event.
2. A religious feast day; a holy day.
So I am celebrating a particular event, at leisure, and being spiritually fed!

The best part is I can listen to the General Young Women, Relief Society, and Priesthood sessions (and conference) on my IPOD later. In addition to that I get to read it in the Ensign. If you ask me I couldn't ask for a better vacation! I swear each conference I watch and listen to gets better and better. What a way to renew my spirits and "really" re-energize me to face the world!

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Honesty


Lately I have been letting the dishonest actions of someone I know really bug me. I realize it is not my place to judge at all so I have really been trying to look at the beam in my own eye. The interesting part of the story is as I have tried to improve myself I came upon the article "The Eternal Importance of Honesty" in April's Ensign. I really enjoyed it, especially this part that I want to share:

“Of all the kinds and colors of marble, the milky white Carrara is the rarest and most costly. Sculptors who lived during the Golden Age of Tuscan Sculpture claimed that it was the purest substance God ever created, and they longed for the feel of it beneath their hands. Any sculptor who was commissioned by a wealthy patron of the arts to create a statue of Carrara marble felt himself to be highly favored.

“Sculpting in marble was neither fast nor easy. In addition to innate talent, it required both careful analysis and tedious, backbreaking work. The artist would have to study the block of marble to determine its essential nature. He would then need to discover the direction of the grain and ascertain the presence of any flaws. He had to make careful and precise plans and drawings which were in accord with the structure of the marble itself. Then, with consummate care, he would begin to chip off the superfluous marble, layer by layer, until he revealed the form he had envisioned.

“Any mistake could be disastrous. If the sculptor went against the grain he could crack the marble; if he struck a blow with too much force he could mash the crystals beneath the surface, creating holes and ruining the sculpture. This seldom happened with the greatest of sculptors, who labored with infinite care and supreme sensitivity. Those with lesser talent and little patience, however, would occasionally be confronted with such a disaster. Rather than admit their blunder and lose their commission, some would resort to subterfuge.

“Soft, white wax, skillfully applied, could usually disguise the damage. In outward appearance the sculpture appeared to be flawless and the defect was seldom discovered until well after the work had been accepted and the commission paid. As the practice became more common, patrons of the arts became more discerning. They refused to accept a piece of marble statuary until after a careful examination had been made to ensure that it was undamaged and contained no wax-covered flaws. The highest standard of excellence for works of white Carrara marble came to include the distinction, ‘sine cere,’ meaning ‘without wax.’

“Eventually these two words merged to become a single word, ‘sincere,’ meaning ‘pure, unadulterated, whole, intact, uninjured.’ When the word was used to refer to marble works of art, the emphasis was on the fundamental wholeness of the statue, not just on its superficial or outward appearance."

I hope that others view me as "Sincere." What a title I hope to always have!